Maybe it’s because you need to be under someone to get over someone else.

Or maybe a certain situation calls for revenge sex.

Or maybe because girls just wanna have fun….

Whatever the reason — sometimes, you just need to have a fuck buddy…

And for the  guys who just don’t know how to handle a fuck buddy set-up, read up on Fuck Buddy No-No’s: Everything you wanted to know about finding a FB, keeping one and letting one go, but well, were just too shy to ask.

No bone, no boner.

Until she tosses you that bone, down boy. Talk and tease, be witty and suggestive.  Watch her reaction to the signals that you’re sending.  If she’s interested, she’ll send them right back, along with a lean that’s just closer than it should be, a touch of your arm that lingers longer than the usual – signs that you can take it a notch higher. Be patient, though, as the last thing you want to do is voice out what you’re thinking which is, “Are we going to have sex or not?”.  Not only will you offend her with that, but even if she were considering you as a FB, she won’t be anymore. Romance or promises of it are not required, but most of the time a little finesse is all you need to squeeze into her pants.

No pretensions.

Women are pretty smart; they recognize that largely, their FBs are being nice to ensure a 2nd helping. And to some extent, that’s fine. But don’t go overboard and get all mushy with texts like the classic, “Kumain ka na?”. Unless you wish you were eating her, that’s just being pretentious. The important thing is that when you are together, nothing should change in your behavior just because she slept with you. Ya, sure, you’re just using her for sex the same way that she’s using you. But you don’t ever have to make each other feel that way. There’s no need for flowers or relationship milestones like meeting each other’s friends or – dear god! — family. There’s no need to date either. That just makes it possible to be seen and you don’t want a lot of questions.  When someone asks who you were with, you wouldn’t want to have to explain that it was your FB, would you?  Neither would you want her to describe you as such to her friends.

No expectations.

You both know that this is a temporary situation. For that reason you don’t expect it to go anywhere or to even last very long. Don’t expect, ask for or demand exclusivity…especially if you can’t give it yourself.

No misleading.

If you’re seriously seeing someone else or in another relationship already, then tell your FB. Let her have the choice to keep your arrangement or not.  That also goes for getting too attached. If you’re honestly starting to fall for her, (as some men do, but won’t always admit), then tell your FB and make a graceful exit. Besides, you know what they say, a ‘sayonara shag’ is one of the best kinds.

No names.

Ok, ok, having a girl that you see just for sex must make you feel like a real stud.  How many of the other boys can say they have that on their scorecard?!  While the desire to breast beat may be irresistible, out of decency, always keep names and identities out of it.  That goes for other pieces of evidence, too, like MMS or pictures stored on your phone.  The boys will just have to take your word for it.

No offense. If she can’t take a booty call or has to bail at the last minute on a scheduled one, don’t take offense in it.   She won’t take it to heart either if you can’t make it — just be sure to cancel beforehand. Same thing goes for comfort levels.  Each person has their way of maintaining an arm’s length distance.  So if she doesn’t want to hold your hand or let you go down on her, don’t take it personally.  Self – preservation is essential to this set up and we all have our ways of achieving it.

No ‘glove’, no ‘love’.

As all practioners will tell you, this is one policy that must be strictly enforced at all times. You can’t ever let a hot date turn into a due date. So while your FB may be a Girl Scout and is always prepared, bring your own baon, dude.  Load up on the condoms. You never know how many rounds you’re going to get and even you may be surprised at how many you can take.